7 Warning Signs Your Marriage Is in Trouble
Todd Stevens Todd Stevens

7 Warning Signs Your Marriage Is in Trouble

Fighting isn't killing your marriage.

This is.

After working with hundreds of couples, I've seen what actually destroys marriages. It's not the big explosion. It's the slow drift no one notices until it's almost too late.

Here are 7 warning signs your marriage is in trouble – and exactly what to do about each one.

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Marriage Communication Breakdown
Todd Stevens Todd Stevens

Marriage Communication Breakdown

Why do your conversations keep going sideways? Learn the 5 communication patterns killing your connection – and the one simple rule that can start to change everything tonight.

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How Pornography Quietly Destroys Intimacy in Your Marriage
Todd Stevens Todd Stevens

How Pornography Quietly Destroys Intimacy in Your Marriage

When some people talk about their use of porn, they get defensive. "It’s harmless! Watching porn is just how I cope. In fact, it actually improves my marriage because it’s how I blow off steam. It’s no big deal. It’s just looking. What’s the harm in daydreaming and indulging in a little bit of fantasy?"

Well, here's the problem. Any good salesman knows if he can get you to at least give something a try, then you're more likely to buy.

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Why Your Spouse Feels Unappreciated (Even When You're Grateful)
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Why Your Spouse Feels Unappreciated (Even When You're Grateful)

If I asked your spouse how long it’s been since you sincerely thanked them for anything, would it be more than a day? More than a week? Would they even be able to remember?

It’s a big deal because gratitude is vital to a healthy relationship. Unfortunately, most of us tend to think we’re grateful since because of how we feel. Feeling glad to have someone in your life isn’t quite the same thing as gratitude, though. Real gratitude isn't a feeling, it's an expression.

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Five Things You Need To Do If Your Spouse Had An Affair
Todd Stevens Todd Stevens

Five Things You Need To Do If Your Spouse Had An Affair

If you’ve learned that your spouse had an affair, I recognize this is probably one of the most difficult and painful times of your life. Whether the affair was physical, emotional, or flirtatious, you’ve experienced a betrayal of trust. But hear me say: there is hope. I don’t at all want to minimize or trivialize the huge breach of trust you’ve experienced. But I do want to assure you, there is hope.

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